Friday, September 9
Money money money

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Friday, September 09, 2005
-'can money make the world go round?' - thebuffboyz.blogspot.com-
buff boys had this article about money, and how money cannot buy everything...i would just like to elaborate some more on this...oeij said that money cant buy everything, for example, true love, friends, and family...it doesn't make ppl cool, it doesn't make ppl feel cool...definitely, i agree on this, and im sure almost everybody does too...but there are some things which i would like to say...my observation is that ppl who are rich usually hang out with ppl who are rich. This is UNLESS a person is really nice, and decides to hang out with people who are not-as-rich-as-him, that is my observation of the ppl around me and how this rich/poor things workand its a lot simpler to click together coz lets say we have a group of friends who are cool and have a cool, not-so-rich guy, and they decide to go for some restaurant dim sum wadever, the poor guy cant afford, so he goes home. He hangs out less with them, and those rich friends would be closer to each other than to the not-so-rich guy, aint this true?so you see, money does buy you friends, although i wish it weren't true, but true friends, some ppl just don't know it or don't need it...another example would be a class t-shirt, or a group t-shirt, lets say a class wants a t-shirt, then the class would be seen as 'together'...BUT along comes a guy who cannot afford the t-shirt, then the class blames him for sabo-ing the class...c'mon man, what's this...NOT COOL...and those who actually confront this poor boy and 'boo' him are not cool people at all...i would define a super cool person as some1 who has great personality, some1 who acts natural and still can impress people because of his gd character, it doesn't matter what car he drives, what clothes he wear (he can wear a slinglet, she can wear a simple t-shirt), it doesn't matter...so long as hes cool, and im sure we all know what's real coolone that is not cool:
one who hangs out with cool people, not one tries to be one
cool people cliqueing only with cool ppl
outside, wear fashionable clothes, quite ex, but inside, just another ol person, nothing great
people who despise poor people because they are poor, GET LOST lah
people sticking to the group of friends who are think they are cool, and act like they are cool...yeah, juz these few pointers
BUT...money DOES buy u the label 'cool' if you want it...u can choose to do all those stuff i mentioned up there, and you will earn yourself a label 'cool' by perhaps ppl on the streets, mrt, schlmates, teachers, wadever...but seriously, to REAL ppl, u aint cool, you're just some1 trying to be cool, and thats loser...its BAD...
but it really depends on the individual, to decides what's cool for himself, if for him, money works, then yes, money can buy 'his' world, but if cool's my type of cool, then money cant buy that, because it is pure heart that buys friends, buys what people call 'cool', pure heart that wins people...
to me, one does not have to sit round an expensive restaurant table, or cafecartel/coffee bean/or whatever expensive place to have a gd time chatting with ONLY the friends who can afford to pay for the meal...i mean, if all the friends happen to be well-to-do, then by all means have the meal there, just dont get STUCK together because you are rich and can afford to be with each other, but because you are GREAT friends...and u must never think your clique better than outsiders, never think superiority...
to me, a meal at a hawker centre with friends having a GREAT time is cool enough...for me, friends, family, they are the most impt...and it is NEVER because of $$money$$ that gets me there, but character, and by what i do...
WELCOME to the real world, get REAL...
living in self denial6:25 AM


Buffed up @
10:18 PM



Comments:
I think there's a fine line between being a 'cool kid' and being a 'happening kid'
 
like i mentioned in one of my commments in an earlier post, its not so much of a fine line.

in fact, who is to say where the fine line is. who is to conclude that a certain kid is cool or poor or happening or a loser. no one can do that!

it would be a sweeping statement to say that a certain someone is poor, unhappening and even COOL.

we are all VICTIMS of circumstances, and we cant do a thing about it

that i believe is the sad reality
 
we cant do anything about it yang?...no we can...its the matter of raising awareness in ppl,

lets say we HAD a group of rich friends and a poor friend and NOW they understand the situation better, they would, like mia would, pay for the poor guy, instead of, 'let him go home' (not that they don't like him, but they didn't think of paying for him). so you see, we can do something about such circumstances,

these circumstances do happen, we cant help that it happens, but we can do something to change these circumstances
 
Segregation according to the size of your wallet demonstrates a failure to look beyond material things. A good example is the prom. No offense to Ruixiang, but I must say it is a little ex. Not all of us have such money to spend you know. At over $50, it is a little expensive for some people. Does that mean that they can't enjoy commemorating the transition from secondary to tertiary education? It should not be the case man. Most of us just want somewhere with great ambience to celebrate with great food. But what about those who cannot afford? Sad, isn't it, that sometimes we're just selfish beings...
 
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Gerrymandering

What the heck is gerrymandering? (Yes, such a word exists)

Every election season my house seems to be moving. 2 election seasons ago I was in the bukit timah district, last election season I was in the bukit batok district. Only thing is... I've never moved house in my life. And it was pretty strange the last elections, because my neighbours less than 100m away was in the bukit timah district. Phishy phishy.

Well, theres a saying that goes the house always wins. Is that true? Sadly so. The house has all the power it wants; although there are rules to keep the house in order, its the house who makes and controls the rules. Bottom line, the house always wins, and the house is controlled by THE MAN.

THE MAN could be anybody, the head of an organization, the CEO, the leader of a state, radio-active hamsters from the planet of mars, just about anyone who controls the rules controls everything. Then again the man may not be THE MAN if the man has to abide by a higher set of rules. Thus the man may think he is THE MAN, although he is just another pawn in THE MAN's game.

To whos rules do you play? To Hoyles' or to your own? Unfortunately everyone plays poker to Hoyles'.


Buffed up @
10:14 AM



Comments:
ah yah rachel cheung and moghan das went through this in IHS, by the way who posted this
 
johnlohmr
 
your ihs lessons got learn things ah? Sham didnt mention it... came across it on a word-of-the-day thingy several years back
 
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